The emerging fears about Ebola are only in part about getting an infection. To put the snake on the table, the real issue is our fear of death.
The subject of death and dying is almost always difficult. As a physician, I have had the opportunity to be present and bear witness as patients died from trauma, disease and old age. Attending these souls in their final days is one of the most profound experiences in medicine. Being with death challenges the families of the dying and each of us. It pushes each of us to examine and experience the emotions, beliefs, spiritual issues, as well as earthy and pragmatic matters tied to this ultimate material transition.
If you are not in health care, you likely do not have a lot of experience with death. Perhaps you have some experience of death those in your family, workplace or friends. This is predictably painful, bringing not only grief but also more questions than answers. Continue reading