Yesterday, I had one of those experiences when someone shares a random act of kindness with you, and it suddenly brightens your day. I had left my office at noon to run an errand during my lunch break. Afterward, I had a little time to spare, so I decided to drive through McDonald’s to get a Diet Coke.
When I pulled in, I was pleased the line was short. I placed my order and then waited in line to get to the first window to pay for my order. As I pulled up to the window, I reached to offer my money to the cashier, who turned to me and said he didn’t need my money—the person in the truck ahead of me had paid for my order.
“Are you serious?” I asked. “Completely serious,” said the cashier.
I looked at the truck ahead of me and wondered if the person inside was anyone I recognized. I waved and the driver waved back. The couple in the truck received part of their order and then pulled forward to wait for the rest.
After I got my Diet Coke, I pulled forward beside the truck, leaving my car window open. As I looked inside, I realized I had no idea who these people were. In fact, they were complete strangers. I thanked them and told them that they had made my day. Theirs was such a kind and unexpected gesture, I felt like I might start crying. The gentleman in the truck asked me not to cry, or he would start crying, too! We laughed, I thanked them again and drove back to work.
I thought about this moment off and on for the rest of the afternoon. It was a small gesture, but it made my day. Why? I think that the surprise of it happening certainly made an impression. It was a big deal because they did not know me. For the couple, I believe, it was a simple gesture of kindness.
In thinking about this random act of kindness, I did a web search and learned that there is actually a “Random Acts of Kindness Foundation” directed to improving our schools, communities and workplaces. Who would have thought? But it is filled with great ideas about taking actions that promote kindness. While not an exhaustive list, ten of their ideas struck a chord with me because they are something we can all do at work. They include:
- Be a positive person.
- Bring a treat to a co-worker.
- Let someone go in front of you in the cafeteria line.
- Eat lunch with someone new.
- Write a positive note to a co-worker.
- Give affirmation; be generous with your kind words that affirm those around you.
- Pay the tab for the person behind you (maybe the people in the truck read this!).
- Give the benefit of the doubt.
- Pat someone on the back.
- Help a co-worker.
I also learned that there is a Worldwide Random Acts of Kindness Day on November 13, 2015.
Yesterday was a powerful day for me, because it reminded me that we all can do better by one another, whether among strangers, patients, hospital visitors or co-workers, by showing kindness. It doesn’t mean that we have to spend a lot of money or even much time. All it requires is that we start each day thinking about one act of kindness we will share with someone else so that we make their day. Imagine how UTMB’s patient satisfaction scores would soar if everyone shared a kind gesture with a patient or visitor!
I have decided we should not wait for November 13 to start. We should start today. We can surprise a co-worker, patient or their family member with a random act of kindness—something as simple as a handwritten note, a compliment, or a verbal “pat on the back”. We can do this for anyone we sense could use a little more kindness in their day. With one random act of kindness at a time, we can make UTMB an even better place. Who knows, we could make it a habit to uplift at least one patient and co-worker every day. How great would that be?
What random acts of kindness you have either shared or received. I’d love to hear them. Send me an email!